Someday

One of my biggest fears in life is becoming divorced, if I got a divorce I would see it as THE BIGGEST failure in my life no questions asked. Yes my parents are divorced; I have seen firsthand how it affects the parents, the kids, and the rest of the family. It’s not fun and it is not something that’s going to happen in my life. I am going to marry a “tea cup girl” whom I love 100% and she is the right woman for me. I know just about everybody feels this way when they are getting married, that’s the way they should feel, but I want to feel that way about my wife until the day I die. I am going to love her, care for her, look out for her, make her feel like a princess, I will make sure she knows that she is the only one for me. I don’t want to be crude but I want to have sex with my wife until the day comes that I can’t, I truly believe that sex is an important part of a marriage and it should not be taken lightly. I want my wife to be my best friend, a companion that helps me through the ups and downs of life and me doing the same for her. Our relationship will be centered on God and we will raise a family in a Christian atmosphere. I know this isn’t all going to be easy, it’s going to be very hard but you have to work at it, you have to work on it together and by yourself. Look in the mirror, ask yourself what are you doing to help or not help, how can you make yourself better? Pointing fingers, especially at your wife, usually is not the right thing to do. Yes, I am a 20 year old sophomore in college who has never been close to marriage but I like to think that these are some of the core things that a marriage should be based on. My dream is to be the best husband for my wife and a great father to my kids, all the while following Jesus and being the best man of God I can be.